in person · London · central London
Soma & Eros Connection Lab
Practice consent and boundaries through movement and conscious touch with Roy Graff's Envokari collective.
- When
- Saturday 24 October 2026 · 14:30
- Where
- London
- Price
- £50
- Host
- Roy Graff, Envokari
connection & intimacyhealing & wellbeing

Soma & Eros Connection Lab Picture this: a playful Saturday afternoon, a room full of curious people, and space to practice consent and boundaries — not as a concept, but as something you feel, live, in real time. It's social, it's warm and it's a lovely place to meet people while practicing what you've learned with us, or picked up elsewhere, around saying (and hearing) yes, no, and everything in between. Beyond yes, no, maybe Consent isn't just a mechanical checklist. It's so much richer than that. We'll go beyond the body-only dimension and lean into the messier, more human stuff underneath — emotional needs, relational patterns, the things we want but rarely say out loud. What to expect Movement and contact dance Invitations into your primal body and emotional self The beautiful, strange dance of what happens when two people meet — the pull, the merging, the unique constellation that forms between two people in connection Conscious, consensual touch, held gently and at your own pace Nothing is mandatory. Everything unfolds as an invitation. You follow what feels right and leave the rest. Who this is for New to the scene? Perfect. This is exactly the kind of gentle, welcoming space to dip a toe into the world of authentic relating for the first time. Been around a while? Also perfect. Come deepen your craft — explore new ways of asking for what you need, offering presence, and reading what the person in front of you is actually asking for. This event has three ticket tiers. At checkout choose the tier you'd like to pay on the sliding scale. If finance is a barrier, you can always contact us to discuss. Generous £65 Standard £50 Supported £35 Location info: South-West London - full address shared with booking confirmation details. Come as you are. Leave more connected — to others, and to yourself. Your facilitators: Roy Graff is a life and relationship coach who draws on his training in Psychosynthesis psychotherapy, Radical Honesty, Non-violent Communication and Wheel of Consent training to offer coaching and mentoring to individuals, couples and polycules. Roy has facilitated a range of workshops involving non-monogamy, Polyamory, kink, consent and boundaries in London, Berlin and at various festivals and retreats. Envokari is a healer and sacred sexuality guide. Building on her formal training as a psychologist, shamanic practices and the Taotantric arts, she holds a profound space for healing and transformation.