Sex Club: London - Weekend Retreat II

Sex Club Retreat II is another weekend edition with different themes and exercises to explore yet more areas of expansion and liberation related to your sexuality.

You don’t need to have attended Retreat I or II to attend Retreat III.

★★★★★ “I didn’t expect that normalizing talking about fascinating intimate subjects around sexuality could be so powerful. It gave me a lot of precious keys to be able to communicate efficiently in a relationship or when meeting a new partner. I also got new creative ideas to play with intimacy and learnt so much for the group’s experiences. I very highly recommend this workshop for everyone. We are all mirrors of each other and have so much knowledge and experience to share and learn from.” - Pauline Loeb

Sex Club is always evolving and growing, with each group we learn and refine our process. But, some things have held true from our first ever groups - the space we create together is brave and held, playful and deep, supportive and challenging enough that we stretch and grow without pushing ourselves to go anyway we’re not yet ready to go.

The process is informed by a set of principles that help form the container for each person to go on their individual journey, to explore the parts of themselves that most need exploration and to find areas within themselves to expand into.

It’s a beautiful and transformative process that invites you into a greater sense of joy and liberation in your relationships and your relationship to sex.

★★★★★ “The Sex Club weekend retreat gave me way more than my highest expectations. What a gift to take out into the world of future relationships. It’s hardly surprising after we’d all journeyed so far, and so intimately together, but I sense some of the new friendships forged there will endure for years. Amazing. Thank you.” - P.

★★★★★ “I can't thank you enough for the weekend. It opened my eyes to a lot of what I've been hiding from myself and really shook up the way I connect with other human beings in such a positive way. Each exercise brought me further in touch with myself and closer to understanding my sexuality. Some things were challenging to face but I am incredibly grateful I have been able to drop some of the burdens I've gotten so used to carrying." A.

★★★★★ “If you are into growth and discovery, challenging yourself, exploring new territories with others, join the club, you won't regret it” - Chris

ABOUT THE WEEKEND

As with every Sex Club, it's a clothes-on space where we inquire into our sexuality via spoken inquiry and embodied explorations all influenced and informed by modern psychology, psychotherapy somatic experience and conscious sexuality practises.

We’ll be exploring the following themes in relation to your sexuality…

Truth

The foundation of so much of what we do is a commitment to truth, to inquiring deeply to better know ourselves so that we can better know what we want and don’t want from our lovers and our love making.

Love

The sense of openness and connectedness that comes from feeling safe enough to say what we feel and what we want creates the space for our hearts to open and love to come through even if only for a fleeting moment with a fleeting lover.

Sensuality

The sensory pleasure of sex is a rich and juicy space for us to inquire into and enjoy. We’ll look at ways we might bring more of the senses into our sexual adventures.

(no) Orgasms

We reflect on the relationship to our orgasms (or the absence of) and the orgasms (or absence) of our partners. We explore what it feels like to take the pressure off and to move away from goal oriented sex.

Play (fulness)

Joy, play and creativity are magic ingredients in the soup of our sexuality. We look at how to introduce and increase them in our sex lives to move towards a more free, creative, present and connected sexual experience.

★★★★★ "The facilitators Jules and Conor were fantastic examples of facilitation at its best. They took time to create and hold spaces which enabled us, the participants to develop relationships with each other within ridiculously short spaces of time. They included themselves and referenced their personal experiences and foibles which made them both human and relatable. Participants felt safe to share with each other, including some very private, never before shared experiences and that was down to the skills of the facilitators. I found the retreat exhilarating, challenging, an opportunity to learn about myself and was left wanting more please.” S.R.

WEEKEND STRUCTURE

Each day follows a similar structure with content building on what came before. The flow of each day is designed to bring us deeper into connection with ourselves and each other.

This is a non-residential weekend retreat. It's deep and beautiful and fun, and we recommend creating some space for yourself to integrate the experience after each day's session, particularly on the Saturday evening.

DAY 1 - SAT

10.45am - Arriving into the space
11am - We begin with the principles and agreements of how we hold the space together
12pm - Pods: a smaller group within in the group for you to check in with each morning
1pm - Break
2pm - Spoken and embodied inquiries into the themes of the day
4:30pm - Check-out
5:30pm - Close

DAY 2 - SUN

09.45am - Arriving into the space
10am - Pods: a smaller group within in the group for you to check in with each morning
11pm - Spoken and embodied inquiries into the themes of the day
12pm - Lunch
1pm - Spoken and embodied inquiries into the themes of the day
3.30pm - Check-out
4:00pm - Close

Over the weekend we will create a container together where through shared vulnerability and a commitment to each other we’ll create group trust so it will feel safe to go deeper into our experiences, de-armour insecurities and shame through exposure and find new confidence and comfort in ourselves as sexual beings.